WAYS TO DEAL WITH BEEN JILTED @ THE ALTAR.

1. RELOCATE:

You have to go back to where you reside, and pack your luggage and just disappear out of sight. Because we all know what's coming after the disgrace - its people staring at you like you are jinxed. The gossip gets very close friends and family members to gather to protect you from the preying eyes of the world. The psychological pain - you must be feeling like wanting to jump into third Mainland Bridge,



the world becomes an enemy to you. Relocating to another state is a good idea. Recently a story surfaced on the Internet of a beautiful 30 years old British lady that was jilted by the altar by her long time boyfriend, she sold her house, car and fulfilled her dreams of traveling around the world and started writing her travel books. Recently, some top companies wants to close deals with her on her Tour Travel Book on Tour Guides, she used her pain to be her victory. Now imagine the rich men all over the world who wants to marry her; Smiles.

2. CHANGE YOUR WORK PLACE:

Yes it’s very important you ether ask them to post you to another state or you resign, because of the psychological trauma of the pity eyes of everybody in your work place. Kemi got jilted on her wedding day and she works in an advertising firm, she decided to play the thick skin and resumed for work.


The groom ran away with a lady in his office. The pity eyes made kemi fainted out of fatigue and endless cries at the end of the day, her brother had to send for her to come and live with him in South-East London and she got another job as a PR Consultant and moved on easily.

3. IF GUYS INVITE YOU ON DATES - GO HAVE FUN, GO

CLUBBING, DRESS TO KILL.

This helps a lot. When guys asked a lady who has recently jilted for dates normally they Refuse, you don't have to unwind, let your hair down, flirt with new men have fun, forget about your story. Attend beauty SPA, have body massage, look hot and prove to the loser who dumped you that he has lost a jewel, that's it.

4. ERASE THE MEMORY OF THE MAN WHO JILTED YOU:
You can do this by deleting him from your Instragram, WhatsApp, Facebook - Blocking mode, so you can be able to breathe again. Be it pictures, anything that makes you remember him, his perfume his voice, his pictures-get rid of it completely.

All the social network that reminds you of him, so you wouldn't have headaches do as if he doesn't exist just like Céline Dion said in her song "And you were history with the slamming of the door and I made myself so strong again somehow and I vanished every memory of you I have ever Made" It gives you this victory, there are many fishes in the river. Regardless of how traumatic the drama of been jilted is - Life goes on.

5. HEAL, PRAY, CRY AND GIVE A SIGH OF RELIEF:
You have to know that there is a God out there, cry! Don’t hold back, let the pain GO for you to be able to heal from the betrayal, give yourself time to love appreciate yourself and realize it’s not your fault, it’s the man who would deal with this for the rest of his life, when you finally see the REAL man.