Marriage is so overrated in this part of the world, really too much hype over this institution, please give us a break!
Marriage is great and God created it. It makes sense when it's with someone right for you, with what is happening in the country and all over the world, we can't help but ask how marriage has favoured you, and how you view the institution mentally.
Epp is a slang, meaning what gain are you getting? Did it help you at the end? It's either you are married to your soul mate or it has turned you to a raging lunatic, a mentally inbalanced woman or man who is angry, abused mentally and physically beyond repair.
A lot of people are married to people they have no business being married to.
My recent survey through my vox pop sited physical and domestic violence as one of the main issue of damaging marriage.
A lawyer in Ajah, Lagos Nigeria, cut the genital of her husband while he was asleep, because she found out he was having series of affairs. Another medical doctor mistakenly shot her husband due to the fact she heard he impreginated a woman outside the marriage due to childlessness.
How can a love so beautiful turn into a cold blooded murderer filled with rage and vengeance?
There is a thin line between love and hate. Is it not best to opt out, why staying in a loveless and abusive marriage?
Well, we all know the accolades given to married women.
Does it mean being single, widowed, divorced, or single parent is the worst thing that can ever happen to a man or woman?
Men are not left out. There are men that have to look out for a good woman to take good care of their children not women who will maltreat them.
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed not to be endured. No one is perfect but when violence has entered the equation, there is cause for alarm and action.
Society, stop harrasing men and women, if they are not married.. This has turned some women to feminist. Marriage is heaven on Earth when you are with your soul mate.
It takes being vulnerable, communication, being real with each other, no fakeness, no packaging, if you want it to stand the test of time.
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